This morning I was congratulating myself on how well the new strategy of not speaking first thing in the morning was working. I've managed to remain silent until Ash is ready for conversation for the past few days and as a result he's started each day in a much calmer frame of mind so I was feeling very proud of my efforts (and those of you who know me will appreciate what an effort it's been). Unfortunately today went downhill from that point on. It was a day of confusion and angst right up until tonight and all because there wasn't enough detail in the diary Ash keeps. All was sorted before bed time but now I'm waiting with baited breath to see if it was a blip or whether this is another slip down the slope of dementia. If it's the former then we're ok for a bit longer but if the latter then lessons must be learned and more detail it will have to be so watch this space.
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However, if I do (rarely) go out without him (he’s never left alone), I write a big note with times I’ll be home, where I am, my mobile number (if he needs to speak to me) and who’s in the house if he needs help. I leave the note next to him, so he can see it at all times. I’ve found this really works, and so far haven’t been on the receiving end of too many ‘meltdowns’.
I’m sure this was just a ‘blip’ for you and Ash. Deep breath........you’re doing a brilliant job!