and life moves on

Didn't sleep well last night and for an odd reason.  As you know I've spent the past few weeks waiting until Ash fell asleep and then moving beds just to get away from his snoring.  I've created my own bedroom space and am gradually turning it into a luxurious sanctuary but it still hasn't felt permanent.  Last night when I went to get into bed Ash suggested I sleep in the spare room.  His reason was that his shoulder hurt and he was worried that he wouldn't sleep well and would keep me awake.  That's a perfectly reasonable explanation and something we've often done over the years but it seemed odd.  Until now I've happily moved beds but, especially recently,  I've been in control of when; this was different and I'm not quite sure how I feel about it.  Actually I think I have an inkling of how I feel about it because I really didn't sleep well.  It might have been a one-off but I think it's more likely to be the shape of things to come, one step further away from how we used to be and another lessening of the ties that bind us.  However it's always a good idea to look on the bright side of life and starting off in my own bedroom did mean I could read my book for as long as I wanted, something which I took full advantage of.  Not only that but the new bedding is arriving in two days time and the new mattress in just over a week.  Once those are in place and I've got my head around this new development I'll be back on track again.  You can't keep a good woman down for long I'm discovering.

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