I've come a long way

 Every time I see a meme or a quote that I like I save it and, somewhere along the way, I share it with all of you.  

This morning I was looking for something to post on the facebook page and I realised that my folder is full of memes that no longer fit my life or the way I'm feeling now.  

The first one to stand out was 'If it was up to me it wouldn't be up to me' and I remember how I felt when I first saw it.  I hated to be the one making decisions, I felt I was letting Ash down by not including him in the decision-making process and I was weighed down by the responsibility.  Now, however, I make decisions all the time without giving it a thought and that particular meme most definitely doesn't apply.

I started to work my way through them all and wondered whether or not to delete those that no longer apply but something stopped me.  It was interesting, I realised, to see how far I've come in the last four years and how much I've changed.  Instead of deleting them then I've set up a new folder just for those particular memes and any time I doubt myself I can look at them and realise I'm now capable of so much more than I used to be.

Yet more proof that this is not the complete disaster it could have been.

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